Mother’s experiences of perinatal grief: A qualitative study in Spain

Abstract

Background: Perinatal loss has a profound impact on the mother's mental health due to its unexpected nature, which disrupts the expectations and aspirations built during pregnancy. Although its impact is clinically docu mented, this grief remains silent and socially discredited, preventing mothers from receiving the recognition and support they need. Aim: This study aims to delve into the lived experiences of mothers who have experienced perinatal loss, examining their grief coping mechanisms and the lasting impact of these experiences on their lives. Methods: Thirteen mothers aged 31 to 49 who had experienced perinatal losses between gestational weeks 10 and 38 were interviewed using semistructured interviews. The resulting qualitative data were then examined using reflexive thematic analysis. Findings: We grouped mothers’ experiences into four themes: first news and medical procedure, farewell and mourning, making sense of the loss, and continuity. Our results show that each woman experiences this loss in her own unique way. Still, when addressed actively and consciously, the grieving process becomes integrated into each person's life story and can foster personal growth. Conclusion: It is essential to continue working to raise awareness and visibility of perinatal loss. Furthermore, it is crucial to establish individualized care protocols to address the specific needs of each woman, with the support of a multidisciplinary team that includes psychological support throughout the postpartum period. Women can use their experiences, even the painful ones, to empower themselves, thus fostering personal growth and resilience.